The idea that cliques exist as an adult is weird. Don’t get me wrong, I get that there are people I would rather hang out with, but being cliquish about it is a whole other thing.
This is one of the many thoughts I have as I prepare to return to school. As educators, we strive to instill kindness in our students. We teach them that while they may not get along with everyone, it is important to be kind; inviting peers to play at recess, greeting one another, and engaging with those who are alone are essential actions. However, when we step into the teachers’ lounge, the reality often reflects a different story. Sadly, many can relate to this experience.
As an adult, I have observed cliques, exclusion, and unkind behaviors, which is perplexing. We should strive to be kind to everyone. If we advocate for inclusion, we must also practice it. If we promote equality, we should embody it. When we discuss kindness and compassion, it is essential to implement these values in our daily lives.
As we approach the new school year, it’s important to reflect on our community. This transition brings new teachers, some of whom may be unfamiliar with their surroundings or have just moved to the area for their new positions. In this spirit, let us practice kindness and inclusivity by inviting everyone to join us at our tables. A simple smile or a friendly greeting in passing can truly brighten someone’s day.
One final thought. Many years ago, Ed Campos talked about ways to include others and bring them into our circles. He focused on doing this at conferences. He shared his idea when standing around and talking to others: leave a space open for others to join. Having a closed circle is uninviting, but by leaving a space, that circle is open and inviting. So, I guess I’m drawing inspiration from Ed; leave a space for others to join, you never know what greatness is out there.
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